Advice for the Newly Married - First Pray for the Other Person!

December 17, 2011

I have been away attending my nephew's wedding in Vadodara. Swamini Vimalanandaji had a nice piece of advice for my nephew, Manan and his bride, Rutvi. She said, "First pray for the other person, then for yourself."

Huh? Are you wondering whether Śrī Kṛṣṇa actually squeezed in advice for newly-weds while teaching Arjuna n the battlefield of Kurkshetra? No, He did not. So why is this in a Geeta blog?

Simple. Śrī Kṛṣṇa explicitly refers to the ideal seeker of Truth and the meditator as one who is सर्वभूतहिते रताः 'rejoices in the welfare of all beings' (verses 5-25 & 12-4). Our partner in life is the perfect test bed for developing such a mindset. One cannot seek the welfare of the world if one cannot start with the person we wake up next to every morning.

Spirituality begins at home.

Hari Om and Namaskaar until the next post

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